Advice for My First Time (Met over the net)?
CoconutBall asked:
I have been talking to this guy online for the past couple weeks. We finally decided to meet. We are both 22 and both virgins (I trust him when he says this). We have an implicit understanding that should dinner go well we’d explore somewhat. We both decided this would be casual. Any suggestions for how to proceed, what to do, how to go about it etc? Thanks.
I am almost positive he is a virgin and am meeting him on my turf. Despite being on my turf I am sure I will be nervous and no idea what to do.
Edward
I have been talking to this guy online for the past couple weeks. We finally decided to meet. We are both 22 and both virgins (I trust him when he says this). We have an implicit understanding that should dinner go well we’d explore somewhat. We both decided this would be casual. Any suggestions for how to proceed, what to do, how to go about it etc? Thanks.
I am almost positive he is a virgin and am meeting him on my turf. Despite being on my turf I am sure I will be nervous and no idea what to do.
Edward
June 26th, 2010 at 9:27 pm
Jon
just be yourself, as natural as possible.
June 28th, 2010 at 1:13 am
Corey
You are a fool if you believe that he is a virgin. Why would he tell you that over the internet? No guy would brag about this unless he wants to rape a virgin.
Got it. Watch it, this smells fishy.
June 29th, 2010 at 12:30 pm
Adrian
make sure hes not some 40 year old perv
July 1st, 2010 at 11:12 pm
Vera
are you positive he is?
July 5th, 2010 at 7:00 am
Lloyd
make him bust a nut in your mouth. its great or all over the keyboard when cybering.
July 5th, 2010 at 11:49 pm
Roberto
well i dont know if yall should meet …tons of people lie over the net look if something bad happens well just know i warned you .. also have yall even talked on the phone ? i would do that first be for i meet him
July 8th, 2010 at 3:16 am
Douglas
Just keep it simple and be yourself. I wouldn’t recommend revealing too much information about yourself, your family, etc. on a first date because you are getting to know him. Ask him to tell you a little about himself? Does he have table manners during dinner? How about when it’s time to pay the bill, does he pay for it, or does he ask you to split the bill? (the reveals a little bit about himself). Good luck and best wishes.
July 8th, 2010 at 4:55 am
Marilyn
Be romantic! Play some music, and definitely take it slow!
July 10th, 2010 at 11:46 pm
Nicholas
if u haven’t met this person before except online how do you know if they have any diseases or some kind of wierdo.it your live maybe you should make this a group of friends thing until you get to know them better.Anyway whats the rush??????????????????????
July 12th, 2010 at 10:25 am
Francisco
you are going about things the wrong way
havnt you read reports of in ternet abuse
if you not met this guy i advise you to dump him now or your in serious trouble girl
this sounds really suspicious
take care……… tell a couple of your friends what your doing before you go ahead
call them after your date is over
July 13th, 2010 at 6:54 pm
Jacob
Yes , he is lieing . He is the bigest lier I ever hurd of. He just wants sex. Around him I would super glue my pants on. Then I would go find a nice guy that wanted me for me and not for sex that after wile he will get tired of. When he does he will go find someone else. So keep your pants pulled up , and you will find the right guy.
July 15th, 2010 at 5:08 pm
Carolyn
The most important part of any encounter it’s the identification of the person! You are going to meet a perfect stranger, the first thing I do when I’m going to meet somebody is the ID, ask for it and verify it! Meet the first time during the day and in a very public place. All of this may sound paranoid bur these times make necessary to be extremely careful!!!!
July 18th, 2010 at 9:34 pm
Gladys
virginity is for sissies!